So now you’re in a steady relationship with a guy whom you totally adore, what’s next? What usually comes in next is how you get to persuade him to do things for you or to totally commit. Here are 7 wonderful tips that would change the way you persuade a man to your way of thinking:
Be a culinary expert
Time and again, we’ve been told that the fastest way to a man’s heart is through his stomach! If you want to be different from the career women that are out there, then you have to stand out with your cooking skills. Once you become a food expert, it will be easy to sway your man to any of your ideas-you’ll see!
Show him that you won’t be a liability
Gone are those times when women are expected to tend only her home and her children. Today, you have to have your own earnings in order to show your man that you won’t be a burden to him. He will have more respect for you as you become financially independent.
No persuasion is needed when it comes to pleasing your man in bed
One of the best venues to talk about differences or concerns is the bedroom-because this is the very place your man is actually powerless. Once he starts to crave for you and your sexual moves, then you are guaranteed of a man who’ll agree with you for as long as he can.
Flirt rather than argue
Whoever said that you could persuade a man to respect your views or opinions by raising your voice at him? Telling him that you’re better than he is won’t do you any good either. It’s better play coy and start sending him flirting signals that he won’t be able to resist.
Don’t get a man to agree by nagging
A man may agree to whatever you’re trying to have him do when you’re nagging but this doesn’t mean that he would willingly do it. The best way to influence him to agree with you is to sweet talk him into it.
Don’t mope, either
If nagging is a no-no, then better not sulk either. Moping is the lesser evil version of nagging. No man would be pleased when forced to do something all because he doesn’t want his partner to look like she’s on the verge of crying! Making him feel guilty is a dirty tactic that you shouldn’t resort to.
Make yourself indispensable
Once he gets used to the way that you run things around the house, he will not be able to bear the idea of losing you. Once he realizes that he’s dependent on you, he’ll be more ready to listen to any suggestions that you might have for him.