Are you frustrated over not getting any girls online? Tired of sending countless messages without receiving a reply? There are so many beautiful women out there with real profiles waiting to be approached. Most of these women who are online are actually very open towards making new friends and building new connections. Specially with the rise of Social Networking sites such as Facebook, you would find that almost every girl has created an online profile on at least one of these social networking sites. These girls have to keep in touch with their friends in school, colleagues at work and with their families and hence Facebook is a convenient solution for them.
This is good news for you if you want to build new connections with beautiful, high status girls. The best thing about online dating is that it leaves you with plenty of options. When it comes to attracting girls online, there really is no approach anxiety or fear of speaking awkwardly and making a fool of yourself. Attracting girls online is actually very easy.
Online attraction is easy, but it certainly has its set of skills which need to be learnt. The reason why you are not having any success with girls on Facebook or any other network, is because you have no idea of the skills of online attraction.
First of all you should realize that the girls you are trying to attract online have absolutely no idea of who you are, and any impression they have of you will be ENTIRELY dependent on your PROFILE! Your Profile will be the ONLY way of communicating your personality, achievements, traits, preferences and beliefs.
Your Profile should effectively communicate everything that attracts these girls instead of repulsing them. Simply said, your profile should bring out all the positive aspects of your life. It could be your appearance, career, social status, wealth etc. Women love to be with successful men, and if your profile conveys that you’re a winner, women would soon be flooding your inbox with messages! But going through some of the profiles on Facebook, it seems that some guys have no clue on how to build a winner’s profile. So here’s some advice on how to amp up your Facebook profile!
1 Profile Picture
This is the most important aspect of your profile. You absolutely need to get this right. We’ve all heard that first impressions really matter. And yes, a girl’s first impression of you will depend entirely on your profile picture. If your profile picture interests her and seems appealing to her, she would visit your profile to know more about you. If your profile picture bores her, she wouldn’t even bother checking out your profile. Even if you do have plenty of other cool pics and fun quotations, she wouldn’t even know! You will be just one of the hundreds of friends in her friends list and soon you’ll be lost in the crowd. Think about it, would you check out a girl’s profile, if her profile pic seemed horribly ugly to you? (If you answered ‘yes’ by any chance, leave immediately) So how do you get your profile pic right?
Here’s how. Your profile picture should convey one or more of the following traits: Fun, Adventurous, Strong, Rich, Intelligent and Socially confident. The more traits your profile pic portrays, the better. Try to hit on as many as you can with your profile pic. Let’s say your profile pic is of you with your friends at a party, this conveys you’re fun, socially confident and maybe even rich. Suppose your pic is of you rock climbing; this conveys you’re adventurous, fun and strong. But of course these are just ideas and you should be smart enough to take pics in a way that conveys these traits. But I hope you get the idea. Try to hit on as many positive traits with your profile pic. Be creative, but stay sensible. Don’t forget to pay attention to the brightness, contrast and sharpness of your profile picture. Some pictures are so dull and dark you can’t figure out who’s in it. Don’t make that mistake. The new Facebook profile has a new feature of a ‘cover photo’. Treat this the same way you would treat the profile picture. Remember the traits!
2 ‘About Me’ section
This is a great chance for you to tell girls what you’re passionate about and what you aim to achieve in life. Show that you have a clear purpose and aim in life and that you are having loads of fun on your way getting there. A man with purpose is very attractive to women. Keep it short of course. No one would want to read lengthy paragraphs.
3 Favourite Quotations
This will show your beliefs and the people who truly inspire you. Fill this section up with motivational quotes and with quotes from great personalities related to your career. Even funny quotes would be fine. Just keep it interesting. ‘If you’re going through hell, then just keep going!’, or ‘ If I hadn’t seen Disney world in my mind, the rest of the world would’ve never seen it for real’-Walt Disney, are examples of good quotations.
4 Be mindful of what you share and what you associate yourself with on Facebook
With the new Newsfeed feature, as soon as you ‘like’ or ‘comment’ on a link or a post, a whole lot of people will get to know about it immediately. So be careful of what posts and photos you ‘like’. Don’t get involved in hate campaigns, racially oriented posts or even sexist stuff. This lowers your image and if you want to attract girls, you want to maintain a high status. As men, we are expected to be in control of our emotions. So show her that you are a strong man who is in control of yourself. Remember also never to ‘like’ or ‘comment’ positively on photos depicting half-naked women, or explicit material. Always remember that you have to maintain the status of a noble man. This will make girls feel safer approaching you and talking to you online.
5 Bridge the gap between your ‘Online self’ and Real self
The entire purpose of attracting girls online is to build a lasting connection with them in real life. The online platform obviously makes it easier to approach them and create the attraction within them. But remember online attraction is just the doorway toward getting these girls into your real life. So in real life you need to BE the person you claim to be online. You shouldn’t claim you are a rich businessman who travels around the world, if you are broke in real life. Always be honest of what you say online. The online game is built on trust. Work on yourself to really be the person you want to be. Go workout, educate yourself and work on building a career for yourself. This way the girls you attract online, will stay with you in real life! For more great tips and advice on how to attract girls online, visit my site
